Psychic Reading: it is finally about you

I was beyond annoyed when I heard one psychic said it is finally your decision.

This is the sentence I hated the most when consulting a psychic.

I called to know my future and you tell me it is my decision?

But now I think this is true.






It is up to everyone of us to make the final decision and psychic will tell you what he/she thinks could be your future upon a decision you assume you might make.
According to what happened in my life, things do have different consequence, especially when it comes to equal opportunities or options that provide similar amounts of benefits. I will give you an example.



If a girl stays in an abusive relationship. Does not matter what she does, what kind of decision she makes, a good psychic should not tell stuff like the guy actually deeply loves her and he will just stop all the abuse and become angel like the next morning.
Of course she can still choose to stay with the guy, but then the physical and emotional damage will be done. It is determined that way.


However, if a guy is choosing between a promotion in the company he serves and returning to education.  There might be options that he can make without asking a psychic.
It is actually more what he wants for himself than what will happen to him in the future.
He wants more money first? Or, he wants to arm himself with more knowledge so he is ready for an even brighter future?


Either way, a psychic could be wrong on this.
I guess it is more about decision making than following fate in this case.



Now, let us talk about getting your ex back.
It is a difficult one.

The most difficult part is that even you wait you might not get him/her back.


I experienced this myself while I tried to get my first love back, and he never was back.
I tried every means possible and I learned my lesson, in the very cruel way.


If a psychic says he can 100% guarantee you the ex be back, please think twice before you pay money again. Talking to such psychic will make you feel better for a while, but will make you trapped. A greater disappointment can be waiting ahead. God says we have free will so He cannot make us believe Him. So no psychic will say he has the power to cast a spell or to assure you that an ex be back.


And there are just so many possibilities underlying the sentence "your ex be back".

First, he is back, and he is still the person as he was, then you two might still break up again.
Second, he is back, but only back to your life, not as a lover.
Third, he is back, and you do not want him anymore. This one is actually about timing, he is back when the waiting period is done.

Fourth, he is back, he wants to work things out, and you two are together again.


Therefore it is finally about your own decision, you decide if you want him back, you decide how long you want to wait, and you decide how much energy you are ready to project into it, you decide if wanting him back is more important than feeling happy everyday?

I know many psychic would advertise themselves as nonjudgmental. That also means they might give you what you want but not in your best interests. I do know some psychics would suggest lovers abuse drug together.

Would I be a friend of that person, I would never suggest you go back to your ex and accept him as who he is, the drug abuser and be together.
You can what I mean here right?